He Kicked His Sister’s Boyfriend Out Of the House After He Wouldn’t Stop Treating His Blind Wife Like a Disabled Person

A woman recently brought her boyfriend for a family dinner, but it turned sour when he wouldn’t stop ‘helping’ her blind sister-in-law even though she didn’t need assistance. The brother threw him out, and now he’s upset with his girlfriend.

Ryan Is a Helper

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The woman’s boyfriend, Ryan, loves helping people. He’ll help anyone, anytime. He’s the kind of guy who would give a stranger money to buy groceries. But sometimes, he takes it too far, making other people uncomfortable, and he can even be a little patronizing.

The Woman Brought Ryan Home

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In this case, the woman took Ryan to a holiday dinner hosted by her brother and his wife, Lily, who has been legally blind since birth. She knew that Ryan would try to help Lily at every opportunity, so she told him beforehand, “Lily is an independent person. Only help if she asks.”

But Ryan couldn’t stop himself

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Afterall, he was a compulsive helper. 

While Lily was cooking, he kept saying things like, “The salt shaker is just on your right” and “Don’t put that pot down there; it’s too close to the edge.” Lily politely explained that his help or advice wasn’t necessary, but Ryan carried on.

He Wanted to Help Lily Cook

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When he saw Lily pull out a knife to chop some vegetables, he offered to take over the chef’s duties. He told Lily he didn’t want her to cut herself. Lily repeated that she’d be okay, but Ryan didn’t listen. Instead, he insisted Lily hand over the knife.

Lily’s Husband Then Had a Word

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Things were getting tense, and Lily’s husband, Paul, stepped in. He told Ryan to stop bothering his wife, reminding him that Lily could take care of herself. But Ryan kept hovering around, which only made the tense situation even tenser.

Lily Tried to Get Rid of Ryan

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Eventually, Lily came up with an idea to get Ryan out of the kitchen. She gave Ryan some cutlery and asked him to set the dinner table. That way, Ryan was still helping, but he was also well out of Lily and her husband’s way.

Things settled down a little over dinner, but there was still tension in the air. 

So the Woman Had a Word with Him

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After dinner, the woman took Ryan aside and reminded him that his assistance was unnecessary. Ryan agreed although she could tell he was upset.

That seemed like the end of the issue.

But a Few Hours Later, the Situation Heated up Again

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And this time, it reached boiling point.

Lily likes to play a game with her two daughters, who are five and three years old. They’ll give their mum an object and ask her to guess what it is. 

Lily Is Great with The Kids

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Lily always gives a few joke answers first. So if she’s holding a salt shaker, she’ll say something absurd, like a shoe or an elephant. It makes the girls laugh.

But Ryan didn’t get the joke. So when Lily said a coin was a phone, Ryan piped up loudly and said, “No, it’s a coin.” 

And that Turned out To Be the Final Straw

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Lily and Paul lost their minds. They were absolutely furious! They told Ryan he’d disrespected them and their home, then demanded he leave immediately. 

Not the best way to end a family holiday get-together!

The Woman Was Super Embarrassed

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She got her stuff and persuaded Ryan to leave. Now Ryan is super annoyed with her. He thinks she should have stood up for him against her brother, who is equally annoyed at her for bringing Ryan to dinner.

Now She Doesn’t Know What to Do

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She knows Ryan was in the wrong, even if for the right reasons. But she’s still wondering if she should have defended him, so she turned to the internet for answers.

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One user said,” I’m sorry, I’m sure you love Ryan, but good lord, he sounds insufferable.

He wasn’t being nice. He was patronizing. Lily neither wanted nor needed his help. He stuck his nose where it didn’t belong and was asked to stop numerous times. I would’ve kicked him out too.”

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