He Refuses to Invite His Sister to His Wedding Because She Cheated on Her First Husband but Now He’s Starting to Doubt His Decision

A man recently wondered if he was wrong for not wanting to invite his sister and his mom to his upcoming wedding. The reason? His sister had cheated on her previous husband and he didn’t agree with how his mom had handled the entire situation. Here’s what he had to say:

Planning a Proposal by the Lake

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He had been in a relationship with his girlfriend, Madi, for two years and was excited about his plan to propose to her by a beautiful lake surrounded by his friends and family.

His Selective Guest List

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Surprisingly, not all family members were invited to this special occasion. He only invited his dad from his immediate family. “This will also be how the wedding will be (him getting a solo invite) so I told him if he doesn’t wanna come I understand but he should know I’ll save the postage if he doesn’t wanna come to the engagement,” he said.

He Excluded His Mom and Sisters

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He didn’t plan to invite his mom or sisters to his wedding. The situation with his mom and sisters started when his sister, Bella, got married two years ago. He had two sisters, Bella (29) and Sarah (25). He was a groomsman at Bella’s wedding and became friends with her husband.

He Was Involved in Her Wedding Expenses

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Although Bella and her husband lived far away, he still made efforts to attend important events. He attended the showers and the bachelor party, even though it was expensive and required a lot of travel.

Her Marital Troubles and the Betrayal

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Unfortunately, Bella’s marriage ended in a divorce due to her infidelity. “2 years ago my sister cheated on her husband with her current husband. Gets a divorce and engaged within like 3 months,” he said. He was disappointed in his sister’s actions and disagreed with how his mother handled the situation.

He Refused to Support Her Second Wedding

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He couldn’t bring himself to support his sister’s second wedding, which caused friction with his mother. He questioned if he should support a wedding with the person she cheated with just three years after her first wedding.

The Financial Disputes

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When his mother planned the second wedding, he asked if she would cover his expenses to attend. She declined but still expected him to come, which led to a heated argument about priorities.

He Chose Not to Attend

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In the end, he decided not to attend his sister’s second wedding and refused to be a groomsman. This decision upset his other sister, Sarah, and caused his mom and sisters to distance themselves from him. During this time, he began dating his girlfriend and posted pictures of their trips online. And now he was getting married.

Was He Right To Exclude Them?

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He wasn’t sure if he was wrong to exclude his mom and sister from the wedding, so he reached out to the internet and asked for advice.

People Responded

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One person commented, “Kudos for sticking to what you believe in.”

Another posted, “You should have told them you’d be there for the third wedding.”

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