He Shocked His Brother’s Broody Girlfriend by Telling Her About His Brother’s Secret Vasectomy, and His Brother Accused Him of Ruining His Life

A man recently asked for some advice after he revealed a sensitive secret at a family party. Here’s what happened.

His Brother Won the Lottery

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When he was 20, the man’s now 40-year-old brother, Mark, won a nice prize on the lottery — he’d receive $1,000 a week for the rest of his life.

It Changed His Brother’s Life

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With his newfound wealth, Mark dropped out of school and went traveling. The man said, “He has spent his entire adulthood basically seeing the world.”

There Was Plenty Saved

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Mark didn’t spend all of his winnings on travel and otherwise did things as cheaply as he could, meaning he’d saved up a good sum of money, which he kept safe and separate from everything else.

His Brother Brought a Girlfriend Home

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Mark didn’t visit that often because he was always traveling, so when he did come home, his family usually threw a party to welcome him. This time was no different, except for the fact that he had his 28-year-old girlfriend, Hailey, with him.

He Immediately Liked Her

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The man said, “Hailey is a pretty young thing, and she is also intelligent and sweet. I can understand why anyone would fall in love with her.”

His Brother Didn’t Want Children

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Growing up, Mark had always resented being the youngest of eight children, and he had always said that he didn’t want children of his own; he just wanted to travel and see the world.

There Was No Going Back

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Mark was so adamant that he wouldn’t be a father that he’d even had a vasectomy 10 years previously.

Hailey Had Lots Of Plans

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The man was talking to Hailey at the barbecue his family had arranged for Mark, and he asked her what her future plans were. He said, “She said that she was ready to settle down and start a family.”

He Had To Know More

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Knowing about Mark’s vasectomy and intrigued by what Hailey had said, the man asked more questions. He wanted to know if they were going to adopt, for example, or if they might try IVF, or even try and reverse the vasectomy.

Hailey Went Quiet

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At that point, Hailey stopped talking and made her way over to Mark. After a few awkward moments, they left.

His Brother Accused Him

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Later that night, Mark called his brother and ranted about the fact that he had ruined his life and that it wasn’t his place to tell Hailey about the vasectomy. He said, “He hadn’t told her, and he was planning on just continuing to travel and maybe adopt if they decided on it.”

He Cut Off All Contact

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After that argument, Mark told the man he never wanted to see him again.

Was He Wrong?

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Was the man wrong to have told Hailey such private information, or was it something that she should already have known?

The Internet Responded

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One person said, “You didn’t do anything wrong. You assumed your brother had been honest with her. It’s not your fault that he doesn’t deserve her.”

Another said, “You saved that girl so much hurt. He was going to 100% drag it on long enough and waste her time. Good on you.”

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