He Told His Girlfriend’s Mom That She Was No Longer Muslim Without Her Permission, but When She Got Mad With Him, He Insisted He’d Been Helpful

A man recently reached out for some advice after his girlfriend got mad at him for telling her parents about her religious choice. Here’s what happened.

She had been religious

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Before a man and his girlfriend met, the woman had been fairly religious, practicing regularly with her family.

It had been a religious family

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She had been raised in a religious family, and it was expected that she would continue to practice her Islamic faith even when she moved out of home.

She had doubts

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About two years ago, the man’s girlfriend started to question things a little more and realized that she had doubts about her religion and the teachings she had been listening to—and often acting on—her whole life until that point.

She took a step back

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The man said, “She doesn’t hate the religion or anything; she just didn’t think it was for her.”

They met six months later

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About six months after the woman started doubting her faith, she and the man met and started a relationship.

She decided she was agnostic

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All through this time, the man’s girlfriend was still asking questions and trying to get to the bottom of her religion, but in the end, there was nothing else for it but to label herself as agnostic.

She kept it quiet

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The man said, “She didn’t tell her parents all this time because she wanted to be 100% sure.”

They met her mom

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About a week ago, the man and his girlfriend went out for lunch, and by chance, they saw the woman’s mom while they were out.

She didn’t know who he was

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The woman’s mother came over to say hello and asked who the man was, as she had no idea her daughter was with anyone.

She got nervous

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The man’s girlfriend started to tell her mom that they were a couple, but she got nervous, which made her stutter, so the man took over for her and introduced himself.

He said something else

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The man told the woman’s mom that he was her daughter’s boyfriend, but he also told her that the woman was no longer Muslim.

He said she was worried

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He added that they’d been together for a long time, but that the woman was worried about telling her parents.

They were shocked

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After all this came out, the woman’s mother was understandably shocked, and she wasn’t the only one. The girlfriend was, too.

They parted as friends

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The man said, “My girlfriend and her mom walked away and chatted. Her mom was shocked and said that it’ll take time, but it’s okay; she’s just happy that my girlfriend is happy. So I thought things turned out great.”

She texted him

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Later that night, the man’s girlfriend sent him a text to tell him he should never have told her mother about her religious views and that it wasn’t his place. She had been planning to tell her parents when she was ready.

Was he wrong?

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Was the man wrong to speak on behalf of his girlfriend and tell her mom a big secret, or was it something that the girlfriend should have done a long time ago?

The internet responded

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One person said, “It doesn’t matter if it turned out fine; you’ve shown that you can’t be trusted.”

Another said, “It was 100% not your place to tell her mom that without her permission.”

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