Her Brother Was Upset by Her Friends’ Behavior at the Neighborhood Block Party, but When He Asked for Compensation, She Hit Him Where It Hurt

A young woman recently wrote to an online forum to ask for advice about a disagreement with her brother. She had invited friends to her neighborhood block party, but they ended up drinking his drinks and inadvertently ruining his meat. Here’s what she had to say.

Block party

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The young woman wrote, “I’m 17. My older brother Tyler (who’s 30) and I invited our friends to our neighborhood block party.”

One drinks cooler

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“Our family only had one cooler for drinks, and it was left in the front yard for anyone to take if they were thirsty,” she added. “Tyler brought the cooler to the back so he and his friends could drink while they grilled.”

Upcoming wedding

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Tyler is getting married soon. He had some friends over to celebrate his upcoming event. He’d even asked the young woman to be the flower girl for his wedding.

Party unfolds

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The young woman’s friends were having fun at the party. Some of them were thirsty, so she told them to grab some drinks from the cooler before coming inside to watch a movie together.

Tyler’s reaction

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A short time later, Tyler approached the young woman. He was angry that all the drinks were gone. He blamed her friends for taking refreshments that his friends had paid for.

Round 2

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Later, Tyler came back for more shouting. This time, he said that one of the young woman’s friends had let the family dog out the back, and the hound had wolfed down all the meat he was grilling.

Grill supervisor

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The young woman countered that her friends didn’t know about the meat or that Tyler and his friends had left it unsupervised in the backyard.

Money owed

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Soon after, the woman received a text from Tyler. It said, “You owe me $100.” However, she felt that he should have warned her not to have the drinks and protected the meat himself.

The argument continues

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The argument continued the next day. When Tyler left the house, she left $100 in her brother’s room with a note that said, “Find another flower girl.”

Family opinion

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The young woman’s mother and sister said she was being hard-headed. They think she should forgive Tyler, but she is holding her ground.

Was she in the right?

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The young woman felt she was right to withdraw her services as the flower girl. However, she reached out to an online forum to ask for a second opinion.

The internet responded

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One poster said, “Sounds like your friends took things that weren’t theirs and inadvertently ruined all the meat. Your brother blew it out of proportion, but you’re also old enough to be held accountable for your friend’s actions.”

While another commenter said, “Do not be a flower girl. It’s a role for children under 10. It’s insulting that he asked you to be honest. With regard to the other stuff, I think he has a right to be upset, as you are technically responsible for your friend’s behavior in the home.”

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