Her Fiancé’s Cousin Wouldn’t Stop Smoking in Her House So She Kicked Him out – Did She Go Too Far?

A woman recently made the decision to remove her fiancé’s cousin from her house when he ignored her one rule and began smoking inside. Her fiancé thinks she’s overreacting, but was she right?

The Cousin Moved In

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Her fiancé’s cousin, Dave, moved to their town but couldn’t move into his new house until later, so he asked if he could stay with them. 

Dave is a smoker, and though the woman initially didn’t want to let him stay, her fiancé convinced her otherwise. 

She Had One Rule

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She agreed on the condition that Dave wouldn’t smoke in the apartment, and everyone was on board.

“Weather around here for the last few days has been dreadful, and Dave goes out to smoke a couple of times a day, so he had been asking if he could smoke with the patio doors open, and I said no,” the woman said.

One Day, She Returned to The Apartment and Found the Patio Doors Open

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Suspicious, she entered and was immediately hit by the smell of cigarette smoke. Dave was sitting on the couch, smoking, with all the windows open and a fan on.

She Was Furious

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The woman became furious and started screaming at Dave, calling him names and demanding that he leave the apartment. 

She didn’t stop screaming until a neighbor showed up, and then she left the apartment herself. 

She Refused to Return

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“I called my fiancé at work and told (not very calmly) him what Dave had done and that I wasn’t coming back until the apartment no longer smelled like a cheap casino,” the woman said.

She is currently staying at a friend’s place, and her fiancé called to say Dave had left and the smell wasn’t that bad, but she still refuses to return until the smell is entirely gone. 

The Family Thinks She’s Overreacting

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Dave told her fiancé’s family what happened, and while they agreed that Dave was wrong, they thought she was out of line for reacting so aggressively and kicking him out.

Her Boyfriend Wants Her to Come Back

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Now, her fiancé’s family has been texting her, calling her out for her reaction.

The woman now feels a lot calmer about the situation, but she is also starting to feel bad about her outburst. However, she still thinks that Dave broke her number one rule. 

She Wonders if She Did Overreact

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The woman, therefore, reached out to the Reddit community and asked if she was in the wrong for her explosive reaction.

People Responded

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One user said, “NTA. As a guest, Dave was obligated to follow your rules. And smoking, in particular, is a particularly odious habit that affects everyone around the smoker (and to which some smokers are either completely nose blind or just don’t care).”

Another user noted, “NTA. And Dave’s mother and family are WAAAY out of line with their opinions. Tell Dave that he has to fix his family issues next after the smell disappears. He made that mess. Now he has to clean it up.”

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