Her Friend Keeps Complaining About Her Horrible Relationship but Won’t Leave Her Boyfriend and Now She’s Had Enough

A woman recently grew sick of hearing her friend complain about a bad relationship because no matter how much she complained, she wouldn’t leave her boyfriend. The woman tried convincing her to move on, but her friend wouldn’t listen. Here’s what she had to say.

The couple had been together for three years

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The 20-year-old woman had been best friends with her 19-year-old friend for at least five years. Her friend had been dating a 21-year-old man for almost three years, and they lived together in an apartment. 

Her friend opens up about the bad relationship

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Recently, her friend opened up about some of the problems she had been experiencing in her relationship. The woman had no idea things were so bad for her friend, but when she found out, she wanted to help.

The boyfriend was a financial burden

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“She told me he has never paid for groceries, makes her buy him stuff (that he doesn’t need, just wants), and just barely pays for rent,” the woman explained. The boyfriend had a job but had no money and had maxed out all his credit cards. 

The woman suggested her friend should leave him

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She offered to support her friend and told her to end the relationship. “I asked if she feels she can’t leave because she’s living with him. and she said that wasn’t the case,” she said.

She upset her friend when she questioned her

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The woman asked her friend if she was reluctant to leave him because they lived together or if it was because she felt insecure about finding someone better. Her friend was upset by this and denied both suggestions, but the woman thought she was in denial.

The relationship was one sided

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Her friend later revealed that she cooked for her boyfriend every night and cooked huge meals whenever his family visited, but he would never do the same for her. He would cook for himself but always refused to cook for her.

They went shopping together

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One time, when grocery shopping with the couple, she watched the boyfriend refuse to help carry the shopping bags because he was busy gaming on his phone. The woman confronted him, saying, “I don’t know why you can’t help. A lot of these items are things you asked for!” He dismissively replied, “You guys have two arms; you got it.”

Her friend constantly complained about him

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Whenever the two friends spoke on the phone, the conversation always revolved around her friend’s relationship problems. The woman always told her friend to leave the boyfriend when their lease ended, but the friend always found excuses to stay. 

She asked her friend why she wanted to be with him

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When asked to name five good reasons for liking her boyfriend, the girl’s only response was, “He reminds me to pay my bills, which I feel is thoughtful.”

Her friend only talked about her relationship

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When the woman was struggling with her mental health, she had asked her friend for support but was met with indifference and a change of subject back to the friend’s relationship problems. 

The woman was tired of hearing about her friend’s problems

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She was hurt by her friend’s lack of empathy and sick of hearing about her problems, especially since she wouldn’t do anything to leave him. She wanted her friend to be happy but didn’t think being constantly burdened with listening to their drama was fair. 

She asked the internet for advice

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Wanting to help her friend but not knowing what to do, she turned to the internet for help. She also wanted to know if she was unkind for not wanting to listen to her friend’s problems anymore.

People responded

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One user said, “Not your monkey, not your circus. If someone doesn’t want to help themselves, there is not much you can do.”

Another user said, “Don’t expect her to leave him. You guys are young. Sometimes it takes a person a little longer to wake up and take control.”

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