Her High School Friend Asked to Meet up But It Was Really Just a Set up To Confront Her for Bullying Her All Those Years Ago

A woman recently ran into an old school friend she used to bully. The meet-up went south fast, and she’s now questioning if she should have said sorry earlier. Here’s her side of the story.

The friend

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The 30-year-old woman saw an old high school friend of hers at work. Her name was Anne.

As it just so happens, a friend of Anne has been in the care of the woman for quite some time now. The woman herself is a doctor.

They met up

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Through her friend, Anne realized who the woman was and said that she wanted to come and say hi.

Due to Anne’s persistence, she and the woman met up for a cup of coffee on the woman’s break from work.

Anne was doing well

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Anne explained that she now has two children with her husband. The woman, meanwhile, told Anne that she has a four-year-old daughter and a wife after she asked.

The meeting seemed to go OK

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“At first, she was very excited and asked me if she could see some pictures of us, so I showed her a few,” she said.

“After that, she laughed and told me how ironic this whole thing was given the fact that I used to bully her back in the day.”

She was bullied

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The woman explained that, throughout high school, Anne was essentially a tomboy, while she herself was a cheerleader.

She used to be quite cold towards Anne, as she knew no better. When her friends would talk about Anne’s sexuality, the woman would “unfortunately” not say anything in response.

The woman admits she wasn’t kind

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Even though Anne was not gay, the woman’s friends used to tease her. The woman said nothing and went along with it while being quite rude and judgemental.

“I’m not at all proud of the way I was,” the woman said.

She was just a bystander

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“Quite the opposite, actually. However, I never made any comments myself.”

“I was a silent bystander, which is also horrible, but I just wanted to clarify.”

The woman apologized

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The woman said that she was deeply sorry to Anne for, back then, not being a good friend to her. She made sure that she apologized.

Although not an excuse, she was a confused, closeted girl with very little idea of what she wanted.

She can’t take it back

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The woman wished she could take it back and make it up to Anne.

Anne accepted the apology, but she made it clear that she wished the woman had apologized sooner.

She wondered why the woman hadn’t reached out

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She only got her apology because she sought out the woman. Why didn’t the woman offer an apology to her through social media?

The woman explained that she didn’t use social media much and once again apologized.

Suddenly the mood changed

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Anne called the woman an entitled jerk who could get whatever she wanted from her life, and she should have apologized for making her life hell a long time ago.

Anne was furious

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As she was leaving, Anne told the woman that she genuinely hoped she was a better person now than she was then, as her wife and daughter deserved far better.

The woman felt very embarrassed

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The woman was horrified and felt bad afterward. So she turned to the internet and asked what she could have done differently.

People responded

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“It seems like she lulled you into a false sense of security, asking you to meet up with her for a nice chat, only to bring up all this stuff that happened when you were kids,” said one commenter.

“She wanted to back you into a corner and make you feel bad about it.”

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