Her Husband Repeatedly Helped Himself to Every Bit of Food in the House, but Whenever She Confronted Him, He Accused Her of Having “Crazy Issues”

A woman recently went online to seek advice for dealing with her selfish, food-stealing husband. Here’s what she had to say.

He was no good

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“I am living with someone that people around me have suggested is mentally and emotionally abusive and possibly a narcissist,” the woman began dramatically.

She made sure there was enough

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“I tend to cook large meals for our family to make sure there is enough for the two of us and our three teenage children.”

Like mother, like daughter

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The woman explained that her mom had always eaten last at mealtimes because she wanted to make sure everyone else had enough first. It was a trait that the woman had inherited.

He put himself first

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At mealtimes, the woman’s husband would usually come in first and load up his plate. By the time the kids had gotten their share, there would often be little left for the woman.

He got the most of everything

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However, she said that as her kids had gotten older, they’d realized how little their mom was getting and downsized their portion sizes. Her husband, meanwhile, was still having more than what a lot of people would consider his “fair share.”

He always helped himself

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This wasn’t the only food-related issue in the house, either. The woman explained that her husband would frequently eat food that he knew the woman had made for herself. He would get angry if she ever confronted him about it, saying that she should make enough for everyone every time she cooks.

He took her treats

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On the rare occasions that the woman would treat herself to a tub of ice cream or her favorite cookies, her husband would help himself without asking. He would also take bottles or cans of what she was drinking and help himself.

He ate his kids’ food

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Her husband’s behavior even extended to his children. If they got pizza delivered or bought a takeout home, he would take some without asking.

She couldn’t leave anything

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The woman pointed out that she went out to work all day while her husband stayed at home. She could leave a full container of food or drink in the fridge and return to find it half-gone.

They argued about it

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The pair had frequently argued about her husband’s behavior, but he had always accused her of having “crazy food issues” and said that “food is there to be eaten.”

She reached out

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The woman was at her wit’s end with her husband’s behavior, and she asked the online community for their advice.

The internet responded

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The internet had a lot to say. “Your husband is the one with food issues, not you,” said one. “You just eat; he uses food to establish dominance and control and doesn’t respect you or your needs. You both need couples therapy.”

“When you repeatedly put yourself last, you teach your kids that it’s okay to have a partner that walks all over you,” another observed.

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