Her Mother-In-Law Demanded to See Her Son when He Was Sick Because She Wasn’t Convinced that His Wife Could Take Care of Him

A woman recently got fed up with her horrible mother-in-law after she turned up at her house because she wanted to see if the woman was caring properly for her sick husband. The woman slammed the door in the MIL’s face and she’s wondering if she had gone too far.

She doesn’t get along with her mother-in-law

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“So it is safe to say that my mother-in-law and I don’t get along at all. I grew up in a very broken family with issues, but I love them nonetheless. I am also on the autism spectrum, which becomes relevant later.

She’s a city girl

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I have lived my entire life in a very busy capital city with loads of different people and cultures, which I love.”

She moved closer to her boyfriend

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Five years ago, the 31-year-old woman met her partner and fell in love. Her new boyfriend lived in a small town two hours away from her home, and after finishing university and finding a good job, she planned to move closer to him. 

Her boyfriend’s mother doesn’t like her

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The tension between her and her mother-in-law was apparent from the start. Her partner’s mother didn’t like her hair or her tattoos and struggled to connect with her. The woman initially thought this was due to her autism, which meant she had difficulty expressing herself.

Mom has a bad attitude

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The younger woman said, “Me being on the spectrum is not a carte blanche for rude behavior. However, my MIL has no understanding of me as a person and sees me as something broken. “My MIL refers to people on the spectrum as ‘my kind’ as if we are aliens.”

She’s very protective

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The MIL made it clear that she was very protective of her family and wanted to keep them close. The woman felt this was a personal attack on her own family, particularly her grandparents, who had raised her when her parents couldn’t. 

They’re buying a house

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When the couple mentioned their plans to buy a house together, the MIL accused the woman of being after her son’s money and trying to take him away from his family. 

She’s making sacrifices too

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The woman questioned why her partner couldn’t move while she was expected to leave her own family and happy life behind. However, her concerns were ignored.

They live close to his mother

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“We ended up buying a house at the beginning of this year, and we love it. It is 15 minutes from my MIL and almost 2 hours from my family, but I also plan to build a life here. My MIL only congratulated my partner about HIS house.

Mom pushed the limits

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“He told her it was our house, and I owned half. She refused to acknowledge that,” the woman said. One day, the MIL showed up uninvited at their house when the woman was home alone, demanding to inspect the house to ensure her “baby” was living in a clean home and eating well. 

She refused

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The woman refused, asked her to leave several times, and eventually closed the door on her. The MIL continued to scream at the front door, eventually starting a full-blown family feud.

The younger woman questioned her actions

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Due to her autism, the younger woman doubted her actions and chose to ask for advice online about whether she handled the situation correctly. She questioned whether she should have been more patient with her MIL, despite how unpleasant the older woman was.

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One internet user commented, “NTA. If she has a key, you may want to change the locks. You deserve to feel safe and respected in your home. Your partner will need to be consistent and supportive of these boundaries. The good news is, if your partner does step up, everything may improve for the better.”

Another responded, “I am annoyed by ‘she wanted to see if her baby was living in a clean home and was fed well,’ as if it is your job to clean the place and feed your partner instead of a grown adult doing those things for themselves. She appears to see you as her servant-in-law at most.”

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