Her Sister’s Friends Pranked Her And Put Her At Risk Of An Allergic Reaction But Now She’s Being Called Selfish For Ruining Her Sister’s Birthday

A 14-year-old autistic girl recently wondered if she should be blamed for ruining her sister’s birthday party because she was allergic to the birthday cake. Sadly, the situation caused her to have a meltdown during the party. Here’s what she had to say.

She Had Allergies

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The 14-year-old girl was allergic to tree nuts and was also autistic. Recently, it was her 11-year-old sister’s birthday party. The cake her parents bought for the party had tree nuts, even though they knew about her allergy. It was her younger sister who chose the cake.

She Felt Alone at the Party

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The girl felt out of place at the party because she was three years older than the other kids. She didn’t have much to do or interact much with the younger guests.

She Was Curious About What Was Happening

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While standing on the porch, the girl saw her younger sister and her friends sneaking around the side of the house. She got curious and went inside to see what they were up to.

Her Sister’s Friends Played a Mean Trick

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Inside, she leaned up the counter to check what they were doing. That was when she heard someone call her name and she turned around. Someone flung cake in her face! The other girls laughed at her.

She Was Nervous

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The girl felt uncomfortable and anxious because of her autism. “I wiped the cake off my face and frantically started trying to wash it off my face and clothes in the sink. The sensory discomfort paired with the risk of the tree nuts inside the cake caused me to go into a meltdown,” she said.

Her Mother Was Furious at Her

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The adults at the party noticed that the kids weren’t outside anymore, so they came inside. That was when they found the girl crying. Her mother took her into the bathroom, locked the door, and started yelling at her, accusing her of ruining her sister’s cake and trying to get attention. This further upset the girl as she continued to cry.

She Was Blamed for Ruining the Party

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Afterward, when they returned to the party, her clothes were still dirty, and she was still upset. “I was met with my sister and her friends berating me for ruining her party and making it all about me,” she said. The girl had another meltdown and couldn’t remember what happened next.

She Was Criticised

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Since the party, some people have accused her of being too dramatic and seeking attention. They said she didn’t have an allergic reaction to the cake, so she should have been fine. She was even grounded for what happened and felt like she was being blamed.

Was She to Be Blamed?

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Even though she didn’t know what she did wrong, she felt terrible for taking attention away from her sister at her party. So, she took to the internet to seek advice.

People Online Had This to Say

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One user said, “If a student told me this story, I’d call CPS. I would be worried about your safety. Your mom is more worried about you looking bad than your allergy.”

Another user said, “I think you need help. Tell a teacher or call CPS because you are not safe at home, and this is extreme emotional abuse. I think you are heroic for not running away or hitting any of the kids involved.”

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