His Friend Cheated on His Wife’s Best Friend and Now They’re Arguing Over Who Gets to Visit Their House

A young couple is struggling with a dilemma involving their friends. The husband’s friend cheated on the wife’s best friend, and she’s now staying with them. The problem is, he wants his friend to visit too. Here’s what the couple had to say.

They Didn’t Have Separate Friends

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The woman started, “I am married to Karl, and we’re both in our mid-20s. I met him a few years ago, and both of our best friends started dating; after that, our friend groups kind of joined together. So, all of my husband’s friends are also my friends, and all my friends are his friends.”

She Had A Best Friend

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The wife had known her best friend, Ava, for 15 years, and they had always been extremely close. Ava was practically part of the wife’s family, attending all their family events and being referred to as a sister by her siblings.

It Was Her House

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The wife and her husband now had a six-month-old daughter, and the wife’s wealthy father was helping them financially until their daughter was old enough for school. He had bought his daughter a house, which the couple lived in together.

Karl worked a job from 7 a.m. to 4 p.m., and he often hung out with his friends afterward, either at their house or at the couple’s home.

His Friend Cheated On Ava

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The woman recounted, “Here’s the problem, my husband’s best friend cheated on my best friend a few weeks ago; she’s completely heartbroken. Since they lived together, my husband and I agreed that it’s okay that she stays with us until they work things out.”

Karl Was Lazy

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Ava was a great help with the baby, and the little one adored her. The husband did not help much with the baby when he returned home from work, usually talking with his friends until around 8 p.m.

Although the woman was okay with that, she greatly appreciated Ava’s help.

He Made Ava Feel Unwelcome

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One evening, after he returned from work, Karl opened the front door, peeked his head in, rolled his eyes upon seeing the wife with Ava, and walked out.

He and his friends returned shortly after and were cold and rude to Ava throughout the evening.

He Confronted Them

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After an hour, Karl confronted the two women, asking his wife why Ava always had to be there and complaining that he wanted to bring his best friend (the cheater) around to the house.

The wife responded, “If I want to bring my best friend into the house my dad paid for, I can, and if I choose to have somebody help me with the baby that you’re not looking after, it’s going to be her.”

He’s Not Speaking To Her

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Karl’s other friends sat in silence afterward, and Karl then walked away and sat back down. He then gave his wife the silent treatment. Feeling uncomfortable in the house after the exchange, Ava left to go and stay with her mom.

Was She Out of Line?

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The woman knows she embarrassed her husband in front of his friends, but she feels what he did was worse. Unsure, she sought advice online, via the Reddit forum, on whether or not her speech was justified given her husband’s behavior.

People Responded

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One commenter wrote, “This discussion should have occurred in private, but your husband chose not only to do it in public but in front of the person affected. You didn’t embarrass your husband in front of his friends; he embarrassed himself.”

Another suggested, ” He made himself look weak and less like a parent when he didn’t take care of his responsibilities properly. Real men are equal partners with their spouses. The guy sounds useless.”

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