His Sister-in-Law Blocked Him from Attending His Brother’s Birthday Because She Disapproved of His Lifestyle, but It Ended Up Costing Her Family the Trip of a Lifetime

A man recently wrote to an online forum to share his disappointment at being barred from his brother’s birthday. His sister-in-law disapproved of his galavanting bachelor lifestyle, but she didn’t realize that her actions would cost her and her family a dream holiday.

Lone Wolf

Having Money
Photo Credit: Shutterstock.

The man wrote, “I’m 39, and I travel for work and make good money. I have never been interested in settling down or having a family.”

Baby brother

The Bro-Code Doesn’t Really Exist
Photo Credit: Shutterstock.

“I mostly work and take vacations. I don’t own an apartment, much less a house. I live out of a backpack and a duffel bag,” he added. “My younger brother, Victor, is the opposite. All he ever wanted since he was a kid was to have a perfect family.”

Different paths

Divorced Before 25
Photo Credit: Shutterstock.

The man’s father had worked the same kind of on-the-road job as he did. Victor never liked their father being away and was always closer to their mom.

Young family

Photo Credit: fizkes/Shutterstock.

Victor married the first woman he met after college. They had two kids and were very happy. The man liked to spoil his brother and his family whenever he could.

Family man

Photo Credit: Krakenimages.com/Shutterstock.

Victor chose to be a teacher to spend more time with his family. The man respects that, but he also understands that his brother’s job is not well paid.

30th birthday

Photo Credit: Pixel-Shot/Shutterstock.

Victor’s 30th birthday was approaching. The man secretly bought Victor’s family a week away at Disneyland. He also arranged for his parents to go so that they could watch the two children.

Judgmental sister-in-law

Judge Others
Photo Credit: Shutterstock.

Victor’s wife disapproves of the man’s lifestyle. She thinks he’s a low-life because he won’t settle down. He prefers casual relationships that last no more than a week.

No invite

Photo Credit: Roman Samborskyi/Shutterstock.

His sister-in-law has been vocal about her disdain for his way of life. On more than one occasion, she has accused him of being a “degenerate, womanizing, alcoholic dirtbag.” She didn’t want him to spend time with her family and didn’t invite him to Victor’s birthday.

Enough is enough

Photo Credit: Krakenimages.com/Shutterstock.

The man was tired of her judgment, so when he was banned from the birthday party, he canceled the trip to Disneyland. He sent a voucher to a restaurant instead.

Wrathful reply

Photo Credit: alphaspirit/Shutterstock.

When his sister-in-law found out about the canceled trip to Disneyland, she was outraged. She called the man selfish for taking away an amazing family experience.

Can’t have it all

Photo Credit: pathdoc/Shutterstock.

He told her that if he wasn’t good enough to be around her family, then his “dirty money” wouldn’t be around them either.

Was he in the right?

high school diploma
Photo Credit: Shutterstock.

He felt bad about canceling the trip, but he was hurt about being excluded. He wrote to an internet forum and asked if he’d done the right thing.

The internet responded

Photo Credit: 13_Phunkod/Shutterstock.

One commenter said, “She has no right to comment on how you choose to live your life. It’s YOURS to live. She has no right to keep you away from your brother and nephews either.”

While another poster declared, “She blew it, she knows she blew it, and she wants to blame you instead of herself.”

READ MORE – Her Vindictive Mother-in-Law Called the Cops on Her for Innocently Parenting Her Baby, so She Told Her to Pack Her Bags and Get Out

Photo Credit: Kues /Shutterstock.

A woman in her 30s recently had a baffling fight with her mother-in-law that ended with a call to the police. The woman explained she had done nothing wrong, but she couldn’t put up with her mother-in-law anymore. Here’s what she had to say.

Her Vindictive Mother-in-Law Called the Cops on Her for Innocently Parenting Her Baby, so She Told Her to Pack Her Bags and Get Out

She Forgave Her Father for Disowning Her When She Was Pregnant at 15, But Her Siblings Didn’t and Now They Want the Inheritance

Photo Credit: Krakenimages.com/Shutterstock.

A woman has asked if she was in the wrong for refusing to share her father’s inheritance with her siblings, who refused contact with him before he died, whereas she chose to forgive him for how he had acted in the past. Here is what she had to say.

She Forgave Her Father for Disowning Her When She Was Pregnant at 15, But Her Siblings Didn’t and Now They Want the Inheritance

An Entitled Neighbor Woke Him Up Making a Rude Demand, And His Astounding Reaction Had the Whole Neighborhood Talking

Photo Credit: Krakenimages.com/Shutterstock.

A capable young chef recently met with local anger and disapproval after a presumptuous neighbor berated him for sleeping in and demanded he help fix her sink, so he told her to get lost. Here’s what transpired.

An Entitled Neighbor Woke Him Up Making a Rude Demand, And His Astounding Reaction Had the Whole Neighborhood Talking

Rude Taxi Driver Parked In His Driveway And Honked His Horn Every Single Morning, So He Set A Trap That Destroyed His Car

Photo Credit: Queenmoonlite Studio/Shutterstock.

They say that revenge is a dish best served cold, but this man took it one step further and served his sweet revenge frozen. Here’s what went down.

Rude Taxi Driver Parked In His Driveway And Honked His Horn Every Single Morning, So He Set A Trap That Destroyed His Car

Her Niece Destroyed Expensive Toys She Bought For Her Daughter, But When Her Brother-in-Law Refused to Pay, She Was Forced to Give An Ultimatum

Photo Credit: Roman Samborskyi/ Shutterstock.

Her brother-in-law’s child was very destructive, and he did nothing to stop her. Recently, the child damaged her daughter’s toys and clothes; she was so upset that she told her brother-in-law to pay for the damages. Here’s how he reacted.

Her Niece Destroyed Expensive Toys She Bought For Her Daughter, But When Her Brother-in-Law Refused to Pay, She Was Forced to Give An Ultimatum