Husband Questions His Wife’s Moral Integrity After She Wants to Reintroduce Her Racist Father Into Their Lives

A man recently left his pregnant wife sobbing after she proposed re-connecting with her bigoted father once their baby was born, and he questioned her moral integrity. Here’s what the husband had to say.

He’s Responsible For His Son

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The married man has a six-year-old son from a previous relationship. When his son’s mother returned to school when he was three years old, the man became his primary guardian. 

He met his future wife at work, where her father was also employed in a superior role. 

He Was Careful Who He Introduced

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The man was clear from the start of their relationship that he wouldn’t introduce his son to his new partner unless their relationship became serious. 

“The man continued, “When my (now) wife did meet my son, they got along really well. I invited her and her father over for dinner one night, and her father met my son for the first time.”

Her Dad Was Racist

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Unfortunately, the dinner didn’t go to plan due to the older father’s bigoted opinions.

His future father-in-law was awkward and made strange remarks about his son’s appearance (since the boy’s mother is black), which didn’t sit well with the man, who found the comments rude and racist.

He Needed Space

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Following a confrontation where the older man offered unconvincing excuses for his behavior, the man asked him to keep their interactions strictly professional. 

He also requested some distance from his wife-to-be in order for him to process what had happened and protect his young son from any fallout.

She Cut Her Father Out

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A few weeks later, his future wife shared that she had cut ties with her father due to his biased beliefs, strengthening their relationship. 

The man’s bride-to-be also maintained that she didn’t want her father at their wedding, and they both eventually transferred to other companies, distancing themselves from her father. He added, “As far as I knew, he was gone from both of our lives for good.”

She Was Pregnant

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Fast forward a few years, and the couple were now married. The husband said, “My wife is now pregnant and due in a month. She has already started maternity leave and has been looking for a new job to start afterward, as she doesn’t want to stay at her current company.”

He Was Shocked

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To his surprise, she revealed that her father had arranged a job interview for her at their old company and that she had been in contact with him for a couple of months. 

The expectant mom wanted to know her husband’s thoughts on introducing their future child to her father.

He Questioned Her Humanity

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Feeling betrayed, the man expressed his emotions to his wife, stating that her consideration of the idea made her appear lesser in his eyes. This statement upset her, leading to a heated conversation where she branded him insensitive.

Even when his heavily pregnant wife ended up in tears, the man defended his words, claiming they reflected his feelings, even if they were harsh.

Was He Insulting?

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Reflecting on the situation later, the man felt unsure about the appropriateness of his words. He wondered if he was wrong, especially given his wife’s heightened emotions during pregnancy. 

Concerned that he should have expressed his disapproval of her proposal without attacking her character, the man sought the advice and opinions of the online community.

The Online Community Responded

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One user commented, “NTA. If there’s a racist at the table with ten other people, you have eleven racists. Your father–in–law has shown he’s a racist. Even your wife knows her dad is a racist, as she had cut him off.” 

Another responded, “You’re right that your words were harsh. But harsh was appropriate. It takes a lesser person to want to invite toxicity into the home, and that’s what your wife did.”

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