She Lied to Her Christian Friend Because She Thought She Was Boring and Didn’t Want Her to Come to A Party

A young woman recently lied to her Christian friend about a party she didn’t want her to attend. She thinks the friend is boring but now her friends are calling out her behavior. Here’s what she had to say.

One of the Woman’s Friends Is a Christian

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This young woman, who is 21, has a group of friends she hangs out with at school. One of her friends, called Jen, is a moderately conservative Christian girl who grew up relatively sheltered. 

She Is Very Different from Her Other Friends

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Jen doesn’t drink at all and doesn’t go to parties, and she hardly ever swears. “If she does, it is still PG-13,” the young woman said.

Jen even has a promise ring that says “one life, one love,” and she posts a lot of religious stuff on social media.

The Woman Is a Bit Embarrassed by Jen

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So the young woman thinks that Jen is nice enough, but she also feels that Jen sometimes embarrasses her. For example, if they go to a bar, she just sits there. And when someone offers to buy her a drink, she refuses. 

Jen Just Wants to Be with Her Friends

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The woman thinks that it is quite obvious that Jen isn’t comfortable in the bar, but she stays because she wants to hang out with her friends. 

The Woman’s Friends Don’t Understand the Friendship

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The young woman feels that some of her other friends are questioning why she’s even friends with Jen because they don’t have anything in common. 

So things turned bad when one of the woman’s friends was having a birthday. 

They Wanted to Go to A Bar

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They all wanted to go to a bar because he was turning 21, and the entire friend group was invited, Jen included.

She Didn’t Want Jen There

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But the young woman didn’t feel like having Jen there to sit and drink ice tea while everyone else was having a good time. 

She says that Jen likes to talk, and she does laugh, but the woman still finds it embarrassing. 

So the Woman Told Jen It Was Canceled

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So the young woman decided to tell Jen that the birthday party was canceled and that the group would meet later. She didn’t say to the group that she had texted Jen because Jen replied, “cool, I wasn’t up to going anyway,” so the woman figured it was fine as Jen didn’t even want to go. 

She Tried to Hide It from Jen

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Now the young woman knew that Jen would probably go on social media, so she avoided getting into any other pictures, and she asked her friends not to post any pictures with her in them.

Jen Found Out

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But one of her friends forgot, and the next day Jen angrily texted her friend, asking why she lied to her. She sent a screenshot of a photo of the woman at the bar. 

She Was Upset About the Lie

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The young woman replied to Jen, asking why she cared so much when she didn’t even want to go.

“You shouldn’t have lied to me anyway,” Jen replied. 

Everyone Thought the Woman Was Wrong to Lie

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The woman tried to explain the situation to Jen, but she ignored her. Even more, her other friends told her she was wrong for lying to them and Jen, and they said she should apologize. 

The woman explained that she figured it was all fine since Jen didn’t want to go and was usually uncomfortable in these situations.

People Responded

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One user said, “Your whole post screams of “you can’t have fun unless you drink!”

Another user said, “You either need to be Jen’s friend or not. It seems as if she’s done you no offense or harm. You just don’t like that she’s Christian. Then at least be upfront instead of being a two-faced snake about it.” 

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