This Husband Shamed His Wife Because He Didn’t Like Her Chicken Alfredo

A hardworking mom recently asked if she was wrong to lose her temper after her husband, who’s been neglecting his responsibilities, criticizes her for the way she looked after the house. Here’s what she had to say.

The Couple Have Young Children

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The woman has been with her husband, who is 42, since the two were in their early twenties. They now share three young children, all of whom are under ten years old.

The Husband Has A Hard Job

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The woman’s husband works as a mechanic, which means that he works anywhere between 60 and 80 hours per week. She, meanwhile, works for three days of the week as a hostess while their children are at school.

She Does Almost All The Housework

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The wife explained, “I do the majority of the housework and childcare. I don’t mind, as I understand he has a hard job and works a lot. He gets the kids on the bus every morning because he leaves for work shortly afterward. All I ask of him is to do his laundry as his clothes are very dirty and need to go in by themselves.”

He Stopped Helping At All

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A couple of times a week, he will help the woman with preparing dinner and cleaning up at the end of the day. However, over the last two months, the woman’s husband has completely stopped helping around the house.

He’s Gotten Lazy Too

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He has started leaving his clothes on the floor, his side of the bedroom is a mess, and he has stopped waking his children up for school, which has really upset them.

They Bickered About It

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Due to seeming stressed, the woman had given her husband the benefit of the doubt until recently, when she didn’t wash his clothes, and he snapped at her. She replied that he had not asked for his washing to be done, to which he grumbled and resumed watching the TV.

He Complained About Her Meal

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Recently, the woman made chicken alfredo. It is a meal that the family has once a week as there have been no complaints about it from either the adults or their children. Her husband, however, moaned throughout the entire meal, saying that she should at least put a good meal on the table if she can not look after their house.

He Called Her A Bad Mother

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“He said I’ve just been letting the whole family down, and I should be ashamed of myself for treating him and his children like that. He called me a bad wife and mother in front of our children,” the woman recounted.

The Woman Was Furious

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The woman sent their children to their rooms and finally snapped, screaming at him about how much she does around the house and that were it not for her, the house would be a complete mess. She also said that he had no right to speak to her like that about a meal.

He Stormed Out

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After a bit of back and forth, the woman’s husband eventually left their house and did not answer the woman’s texts or calls, meaning she had no idea where he had gone.

The women feels bad

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“I feel bad now, as I shouldn’t have reacted like that, especially because I know he’s just stressed from work, but it all just kind of built up and came out at once. I just want to know if I was wrong for freaking out on him like that,” she worried.

Was She In The Wrong?

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The wife decided to ask the opinion of the Reddit community about whether her reaction was justified. Fortunately for her, the majority of people understood her side and felt that she had done nothing wrong.

People Replied

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One commenter said, “He isn’t helping you; he is doing the bare minimum of adulting. Being a stay-at-home mum (full-time or part-time) isn’t the same as a stay-at-home wife.”

A second wrote, “You have asked so very little of him, and he has let you down.”

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